Stage one is coming soon.
SolaSingles is a community for single believers who hold the doctrines of grace — a place to meet over what you love, with marriage in view. It opens in three stages, and the first one begins soon. There is nothing to sign up for yet. Read on to see how it works.
How people meet here
Where most sites hand you a search box, SolaSingles opens in the Fellowship Hall: rooms for books, for cooking, for gardening, for chess, for movies, for theology — living conversations you join because you would join them anyway. You get to know people the way people have always gotten to know each other: naturally, over something you both love, with marriage as the honest horizon.
It is the shape of the communities everyone already loves — a covenant community of single believers — and nothing like it has ever been done in the Calvinist singles world.
Filtering & matching
See the whole community on a map, or scroll through every member — it is all there to be found.
You never have to filter at all: everyone visible, everyone reachable, and any member free to talk with any other.
Or draw lines. Filter by location, by denomination, by conviction — by almost anything. Set a conviction as a requirement and the site enforces it: members who do not meet your requirements never appear among your matches, and — if you so choose — cannot see your profile or start a private conversation with you at all. The rooms of the Fellowship Hall stay common ground: anyone can talk with anyone there.
Decide who sees your profile and who can message you.
Who can join
Membership is for single believers, eighteen and older, in the United States, Canada, the United Kingdom, Ireland, Australia, and New Zealand. Every member verifies their identity before their profile goes live.
Everyone is identity-verified by a dedicated third-party verification provider.
Doctrinal statement
One doctrinal statement is the door. Every member affirms it in full, and it means what it says.
We wrote it to be precise on purpose. A vague statement of faith is an open door — sites that ask only "are you a Christian?" admit every error the word Christian can be stretched around. Ours says what it affirms and names what it rejects, so the errors that slip through elsewhere do not slip through here.
That is the floor everyone here stands on.
Everyone screened for orthodoxy.
Position papers
Above that floor, faithful believers differ: baptism, the church, the millennium. Members state their positions plainly, and for each position the site keeps one careful paper, written to be fair enough that the people who hold it would own it.
Positions do real work here. A credobaptist woman can require that a paedobaptist man read the site's paper on believer's baptism before his first message reaches her — he confirms he has read it, and the conversation opens. Understanding comes before conversation.
Application review
Most members go live upon completion. Two situations get a personal read from us first.
It stops at that step, and a live person sorts it out — nobody is bounced by a machine.
Faithful believers are sometimes between congregations, and many missionaries serve where a membership roll cannot follow. If that is you, you write your story in your own words, and we read it ourselves.
The second never interrupts your application — you finish it start to end, and we read the whole thing before your profile goes live. Either way, you will hear from us in hours, not days. We start on your case right away — where it depends on someone beyond us, it can take longer, but it never sits in a queue.
No empty profiles. A profile does not go live until it is complete.
Built to a standard
Nothing here opens half-built. The site and the apps are made the way professionals make things — carefully, thoroughly, tested end to end — and built according to Biblical standards: honest work, honestly finished, before anyone is asked to pay for it (Colossians 3:23).
Notifications are yours to control — you decide what you are told about, and when: right away, in digests, with quiet hours, with a Lord's Day/Sabbath mode. And they actually arrive. When someone writes to you, you will know — nobody here discovers a message three weeks too late.
iPhone and Android apps arrive with launch — real, finished apps, built to the same standard as the site.
How launch works
The doors are not open yet. The site opens in three stages, so that nobody ever walks into an empty room.
Stage one — the line. Signing up is buying your ticket early. You complete your profile, hold your place, and wait with everyone else until one hundred members are in line.
Stage two — the Fellowship Hall. At one hundred members the doors are flung open and everyone walks in together. Everyone meets in the rooms — conversation over books, gardens, chessboards and theology — and same-sex members can view each other's profiles and build friendships. It is a singles community first — a hall of believers who know each other's minds before courtship begins. Matching, cross-profile viewing and private messaging are held back on purpose while the community grows toward one thousand members.
Stage three — launch. At one thousand members, matching opens. Every profile, every match, every message — all at once — and billing begins. Nobody is charged before launch.
Membership & price
$29.99 a month.
That is the only plan: a recurring monthly subscription, cancellable at any time. Cancelling stops all future charges, and your membership runs to the end of the period already paid.
And here is our whole heart on that number: if thirty dollars a month would strain you, then courtship, a wedding, and a family would finish you — this is the cheapest thing marriage will ever ask of you. We say that with a smile, but we mean it.
There is no free tier, and there never will be. Pause your membership and your profile disappears until you're back — nothing about you shows. That's not a paywall. That's a filter.
It also means the people you meet here are actually here. A free site fills up with abandoned profiles — people who drifted off, lost interest, or quietly married — and never clears them out.
Billing begins on launch day, never before — signing up ahead of launch charges nothing.
There are no refunds, with one automatic exception: if your application is declined, everything you paid is refunded without your asking. Every other appeal is read by a person — write to admin@solasingles.com. A charge disputed with your card issuer instead of with us is refunded and the account closed. Full billing terms are in the terms.
No stale profiles. A profile begins to fade at 30 days and by 90 days it is gone.
Promises
Five things this site will never do — written down so they can be held against us.
People are not cards, and finding a spouse is not a reflex game.
No points, no streaks, no scores, no rankings — nothing to climb, ever.
No blurred photos, no "someone likes you — pay to find out who."
Every member pays the same, from the first day.
Leaving is as plain as joining. No retention maze, no guilt screen, no hidden button.
Contact
Questions, from members or anyone else: admin@solasingles.com.